my RK attunement bar looks like this but i would like it to look like yours .
Again im using the right custom toolbar for your Black Vellum Toolbar pack.
Ah-ha! That's actually not an issue with the Black Vellum skin. You have to activate the small attunement bar in the LotRO options.
Open the Options window either with ctrl-o or from the menu (System --> Options). Click on the "UI Settings" tab. The option is called "Attunement Panel Size" listed under "Misc". You need to select "small" instead of "large".